As a parent or caregiver, you know how important it is to stay connected with your pre-teen or teen. But getting them to talk about their day can feel like trying to crack a secret code. They may be tired, distracted, or just not in the mood to share. The good news is that the drive home from school offers a quiet, natural space to start a conversation without pressure.

At Alleviant, we understand that mental health isn’t just about managing symptoms. It’s about supporting the whole person, including the connections that matter most. Taking just a few minutes each day to check in with your child builds trust, opens communication, and helps you notice how they’re really doing beneath the surface.

Talking about mental health with kids can feel tricky, even for the most loving and attentive parents. Maybe you’re not sure what to say. Maybe you don’t want to scare them or say the wrong thing. Or maybe you’re worried that bringing it up will make things worse.

But here’s the truth: your child doesn’t need perfect words. They need your presence. They need to know it’s okay to talk about feelings, especially the hard ones.

When mental health becomes something we talk about openly, it loses some of its power to scare or isolate. It becomes something we care for—together.

August can feel like a pressure cooker for teens. The slower pace of summer is coming to an end, school is right around the corner, and for many young people, there’s a quiet (or not-so-quiet) sense of dread building beneath the surface.

Maybe your teen is feeling anxious about grades or friend groups. Maybe they’re dreading early mornings or dealing with body image stress as they head back into more social settings. Even if they don’t say much, you may notice changes in their mood or behavior this time of year.